Darver Castle Wedding Invitation (Flat Card)
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A vibrant wedding invitation showcasing Darver Castle in Dundalk, Ireland. Hand-painted by Sinead O'Toole.
Flat card, size 5 x 7". Printed on white matt card. White envelopes are included.
The back of the invitation offers additional space for important details, such as RSVP information or details about a second event.
Minimum order is 35. Please select your quantity below.
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Process (how it works)
After ordering, and once we have received your full wording, a design proof will be sent to your email for approval within 1-2 working days.
Once we receive your final approval, we will begin printing your design and getting it ready for shipment. This process typically takes up to 5 working days. You will receive an email notification once your order has been shipped.
Delivery Time & Cost
Estimated shipping time will depend on your location. All parcels are fully tracked.
N.Ireland & UK, DPD 2-3 working days - £18 / Republic of Ireland, DHL Express 3-5 working days - €35 / Rest of world, DHL Express 7-12 working days - from £45
Here, you will find examples of wording for a wedding invite that go down more of a traditional route. However, you can always use these as a basis for your wedding invite message and tweak bits that don't work so well for you.
1. Traditional Church Wedding Invitation Wording
A traditional wedding invitation would typically come from the parents of the bride, as tradition dictates that they host the day and foot the bill.
On a traditional wedding invite, you’ll start with details of the church wedding ceremony followed by the reception details. While “request the pleasure of [guest]” is typical wording, you may choose to handwrite the name of the guest at the top and print a non-personalised set of invites. This wording would be “[bride’s parents] invite you to celebrate the marriage of…”
As the bride’s parents would be hosting, the RSVPs would go back to them and you’d add a separate RSVP card.
The text for a traditional wedding invitation to a church wedding ceremony, followed by the reception, should read as follows:
Mr & Mrs John Smith
request the pleasure of
[guest name/your company]
at the marriage of their daughter
Jessica
to
Mr Edward Jones
[location]
[date]
[time]
and afterwards at
[reception]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parent’s address]
2. Traditional Formal Civil Ceremony Wedding Invitation Wording
Many couples now have a civil ceremony at the same venue as their reception. You only need to list one venue on the invitation, but it’s best to include ‘followed by a reception’ so the guest knows they’ll be welcome at the ceremony as well as the celebrations after.
If the bride’s parents are hosting, just use their names, otherwise you may choose to name both sets of parents.
A formal civil ceremony wedding invitation should read:
Mr & Mrs John Smith
and Mr & Mrs Alan Jones
request the pleasure of
[guest name/your company]
at the marriage of their children
Jessica and Edward
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parents’ address]
3. Traditional Informal Civil Ceremony Wedding Invitation Wording
Together with their parents,
[couple]
invite you to celebrate their wedding!
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parents’ address]
4. Formal Wedding Invitation Wording With Numbers as Words
Laura gave us an insight into her favourite style of wedding invitation wording, saying, "Personally, I adore formal worded invitations, where numbers and times are spelled out," and her example is below.
Together with their families,
Lydia Harrison
and
William Jones
invite you to join them
at the celebration of their marriage
Saturday, the twenty-first of October
Two thousand and twenty-three
At two thirty in the afternoon
[ceremony location]
Dinner and dancing to follow at reception location
5. Wedding Invitation Wording with the Couple as Hosts
If your parents haven’t chipped in for the wedding, or you just feel like you’d like the invitations to come directly from you, then you don’t need to include their names on your wedding invitations.
You can simply put yourself down as hosts – just tweak the text accordingly following the above examples to reflect whether you’re having a church or civil ceremony.
Usually an invite from the couple is more informal, modern and might look like:
Jessica and Jane are getting hitched!
[location]
[date]
[time]
followed by drinking and dancing
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [couple’s address]
Other wording might include:
- Join us to celebrate our wedding
- [Couple] invite you to join them as they say “I do!”
- Please join [couple] as we tie the knot!
- [Couple] invite you to share in our joy as we get married
- A very simple ‘The wedding of [couple]’, followed by location, time and date details
6. Divorced Parents Wedding Invitation Wording
It can be tricky to know how to word your wedding invitations if your parents are divorced or have remarried. If they are divorced but have kept the same surname, you would use both parents’ full names on the invite:
Mr John Smith & Mrs Beth Smith
request the pleasure of
[guest name/your company]
at the marriage of their daughter
Jessica
to
Mr Edward Jones
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parent’s address]
7. Remarried Parents Wedding Invitation Wording
If your parents have remarried but are still hosting the wedding together, you would name them separately and use your mother’s new married name, like so:
Mr John Smith & Mrs Beth Howard
request the pleasure of
[guest name/your company]
at the marriage of their daughter
Jessica
to
Mr Edward Jones
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parent’s address]
8. Step-Parents Wedding Invitation Wording
If your parents split up a long time ago and they have since remarried or met a new partner and your step-parent is a part of hosting the wedding instead of one of your biological parents, there are a couple of ways around this in your wedding invitation wording.
You would use their separate names if they’re not married but, if the invitation is coming from your parent and step-parent, the wording should look something like this (the use of his and her is interchangeable depending on whether it’s your father or mother hosting.)
Mr & Mrs Paul Howard
request the pleasure of
[guest name/your company]
at the marriage of her daughter
Jessica Smith
to
Mr Edward Jones
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parent’s address]
If both parents and respective step-parents are hosting, it’s always best to start with ‘Together with their families’.
9. Widowed Parents Wedding Invitation Wording
Addressing a wedding invitation from a widowed parent can be sensitive. It is traditional to just use the name of the parent who is requesting the company of the guest, if they are hosting alone or haven’t remarried.
If they’ve remarried and you’re happy to have both names on your invitations, you’re best to follow the step-parent format above. If it is from the father and he has not remarried, you’d just use his name. If it’s the mother that is the surviving parent, and she has not remarried, you’d use her married title.
Below is an example of wedding invitation wording from a widowed parent:
Mrs Beth Smith
request the pleasure of
[guest name/your company]
at the marriage of her daughter
Jessica Smith
to
Mr Edward Jones
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parent’s address]
10. Formal Both Families Wedding Invitation Wording
Perhaps both sets of parents have helped contribute towards the wedding, or you would just like to reference both sets of families on your wedding invitations? This is an increasingly popular way to word your wedding invitations.
For formal invitations from both sets of parents, you would use both their names:
Mr and Mrs John Smith
&
Mr and Mrs James Jones
invite you to celebrate the marriage of their children
Jessica and Edward
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parents’ address]
11. Informal Both Families Wedding Invitation Wording
If you feel like having both sets of parents’ names on there is a bit clunky, you can word it slightly more informally. “Together with their parents” works well if both sets of parents are still together, but if one party is widowed or there are any remarriages involved, “Together with their families” is a nice option that acknowledges everyone.
Here’s an example of an informal invitation from both sets of parents:
Together with their families,
Jessica Smith
&
Edward Jones
invite you to join them as they say “I do!”
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [couple/parents’ address]
12. Formal LGBTQ+ Wedding Invitation Wording
If one set of parents are paying for the wedding then etiquette dictates their names will go first, but otherwise it is your choice how you list your names. Alphabetically might solve any potential issues!
Together with their parents,
Edward Jones
&
Jack Andrew
request the pleasure of your company
at their wedding
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to couple/parents’ address
13. Informal LGBTQ+ Wedding Invitation Wording
If you'd rather things feel less formal, stick to first names and go with the order that most people refer to you as a couple.
Jessie & Mabel
Invite you to party with them
& celebrate their love
at their wedding
at [venue]
on [date and time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to couple/parents’ address
14. Cute LGBTQ+ Wedding Invitation Wording
Why not introduce your new surname (whatever you're going for) on your wedding invitations?
The future
Mrs & Mrs Brooker-Drake
Invite you to celebrate with them
[location]
[date]
[time]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to couple/parents’ address
15. Wedding Invitation Wording from Your Children
This is a cute idea if you and your partner have children together already, or have children from previous relationships that you want to include on your wedding invitations.
Here’s how to word your invitation if the children are from your relationship:
Jennifer and Jacob Jones
invite you to join them
for the marriage of their parents
Jessica Smith
&
Edward Jones
[location]
[date]
[time]
followed by a reception
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [couple‘s address]
If the children are from a previous relationship they should be listed in age order from oldest to youngest, with the bride’s children appearing first (in age order only for a same-sex marriage).
Evening Wedding Invitation Wording Examples
Not having children at the wedding? Inviting some guests only to the evening? Here's how to be super clear with your wording.
16. Formal Evening-Only Wedding Invitation Wording
Sometimes there just isn’t enough room on the guest list to invite everyone to the day. If you need to invite someone to the evening reception only, make sure you word it clearly so your guests aren’t confused.
Here’s a traditionally worded wedding evening invitation to inspire you:
Mr & Mrs John Smith
request the pleasure of
[guest name/your company]
at a reception to celebrate the marriage of their daughter
Jessica
to
Mr Edward Jones
[location]
[date]
[time e.g. 7pm]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [parents‘ address]#
17. Informal Evening-Only Wedding Invitation Wording
An informal evening-only invite would look like:
Jessica and Edward
invite you to an evening of drinks and dancing
to celebrate their wedding!
[location]
[date]
[time e.g. 7pm]
R.S.V.P by 30th June to [couple’s address]
18. Adults-Only Wedding Invitation Wording
For couples who want an adult-only celebration, it is worth specifying this on your invitations. Some people may assume their children are invited, even if they haven’t been named.
Address your invitations as normal with just the names of the adults invited and then add a line at the bottom expressly stating kids aren’t invited. You can politely point out your choice on your invitation like so:
- Unfortunately, children are not invited – we hope you understand
- We have chosen to have a child-free wedding. We hope you are still able to celebrate with us
- Our wedding will be a child-free occasion. We hope you can still come and enjoy a night off
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FAQs
When will I receive my design proof?
You will receive your first proof for approval within 1-2 days. We are happy to make 2 minor amendments, however any amendments beyond this may result in a fee for additional design time. Most designs are approved and finalised by the first or second round.
How long does printing and postage take for these invitations?
Once we receive your final approval, we will begin printing your design and getting it ready for shipment. This process typically takes up to 5 working days. You will receive an email notification once your order has been shipped. All parcels are tracked.
N.Ireland & UK, DPD 2-3 working days - £18 / Republic of Ireland, DHL Express 3-5 working days - €35 / Rest of world, DHL Express 7-12 working days - from £45
Can I add RSVP and accommodation info to the back of my invite?
Yes, you can! We will do our best to accommodate your wording choice. However, please keep in mind that adding a great deal of information is not recommended to preserve the legibility of your text and the integrity of your design. If you need to add accommodation, directions or gift info to your design, we suggest ordering enclosure cards.
Can I customise my design with new artwork and colours?
Absolutely, you have the option to do so! However, please note that new artwork (ex; florals) is an additional free. We recommend reaching out to us prior to placing your order in order to receive more information and a customised quote.
Is there a minimum order?
There is. Due to the time involved in creating your designs along with printers minimum quantities, a minimum of 35 cards is required from our pre-designed collection. This is why always we recommend ordering a few extra.
Do you offer reprints for spelling mistakes?
The purchaser bears sole responsibility for spelling errors, so it is crucial to thoroughly review everything. In the event that any spelling mistakes are identified after printing, we have an obligation to charge for a reprint.
Can I use the artwork from my order for a logo or artwork on my blog/website?
All digital images used during the proofing process are sole property of Roco & Miley and cannot be used for a personal design or reproduction. All illustrations are copyright of Roco & Miley and may not be reused without our permission.